David Ray Tarpley

David Ray Tarpley, of Dayton, Ohio, passed away on November 10, 2026, in Dayton. He was born on August 5, 1954, in Cookville, Tennessee, and lived a life marked by warmth, energy, and a deep devotion to the people and pursuits he loved.

David was a happy and loving man, remembered by many as the life of the party. He brought that same spirit into every corner of his life, especially in the time he shared with family and friends and in the passions that shaped him. He loved music, enjoyed playing his guitar in his free time, and treasured being with those closest to him.

Athletics and mentorship were central to David’s life. He graduated from Dixie High School in 1972 and went on to earn his bachelor’s degree from the University of Dayton. Along the way, he played football at Central State University and later at Colombia Basin in Pasco, Washington. His love for the game grew into a calling. A devoted coach, David was passionate about developing young athletes and helping them grow. Over the years, he coached football for Meadowdale, Northmont, Dixie, Northridge, Stebbins, and Wayne, leaving a lasting impression on the players and communities he served.

Among his proudest accomplishments was his time as head coach at Dixie High School from 2005 to 2011, where his dedication to growth and success earned him Coach of the Year for the State of Ohio. In 2000, he was inducted into the Dixie High School Hall of Fame, a fitting honor for a man whose commitment and influence reached far beyond the field.

Above all, David’s heart belonged to his family. He is survived by his wife, Sharon Tarpley; his sons, Ryan Tarpley and Darrin Tarpley; and his daughter-in-law, Marjorie Tarpley. He also leaves behind his beloved grandchildren, Troy Tarpley and Autumn Tarpley, who were part of the family circle he cherished so deeply.

He is also survived by his sisters, Pat Sherer and Betty Crews, and by his brothers-in-law, John Sherer and Kenny Crews. His family also includes his nieces, Susie, Sheila, Angie, and Melissa, all of whom carry forward the memory of his laughter, his love, and the joy he brought into a room.

David was preceded in death by his mother, Lois Tarpley, and his father, Don Tarpley.

A Visitation will be held on Wednesday, November 18, 2026, from 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. at Newcomer Funeral Home, North Dayton, 4104 Needmore Rd, Dayton, Ohio 45424.

David Ray Tarpley will be remembered for his generous spirit, his love of family, his music, and the countless lives he touched as a coach, mentor, husband, father, grandfather, brother, and friend. His presence was bright, and his memory will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.