Moving on without you here is hard but loving you forever is easy!

~ LaShunda Byrd - August 4, 2022

This time of year is hard. You are so missed! Every conversation, moment and giggles mean so much. Forever you will be my first baby, cousin and friend! Love you always and forever.

~ LaShunda Byrd - June 2, 2022

I think of you every day

~ Lashunda Byrd - October 12, 2019

I think of you every day

~ Lashunda Byrd - October 12, 2019

So forgive by faith, not by feelings. Let the Lord give you strength. He’s God in Heaven and in earth and hell. Jesus feels what you feel on the inside. Let him in and ask Him how do get strength to continue living and not let yourself feel like you want to go home and be with your love one. Let Jesus comfort you and use his Word to give you courage in your heart.
"But we do not want you to be uninformed, brethren, about those who are asleep, so that you will not grieve as do the rest who have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who have fallen asleep in Jesus." --1 Thessalonians 4:13-14
Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand."--Isaiah 41:1
"When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; And through the rivers, they will not overflow you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be scorched, Nor will the flame burn you." --Isaiah 43:2
". . . For the LORD has comforted His people And will have compassion (love) on His afflicted." --Isaiah 49:13

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." --Matthew 5:4

For we do not have a High Priest who cannot touched with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet without sin. Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy (love) and find grace to help in time of need." --Hebrews 4:15-16

"Casting all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you." --1 Peter 5:5-11

LOVE YOU ALL AND PRAYING DAILY FOR THE CHRIST'S STRENGTH IN YOU.
ELELYONPRINCE

~ ELELYON PRINCE - August 16, 2019

I am devoting my prayers today to Monica and to her family and friends. What a tragic loss. Reading about her, I know enough to see what a lovely person she was. I pray that she is in God's hands and free from any fear, pain, and doubt and that she is Really Living! I pray that I might see her in our Father's house where all is answered and all has worked together for good. With deep compassion, Jeff Johnson, La Jolla, California

~ JEFF JOHNSON - August 16, 2019

I met Monica several years ago while in VA Beach training for work. She and Bea had me laughing more than I was working but their love for each other was obvious and their compassion for others was evident. If there is any solace in this unnecessary tragedy, it is that these best friends, went together. When Anthem lost both Monica and Bea, we lost two valued members of the company. I don't live far from Dayton and this will forever haunt me. To your family, my deepest sympathies.

~ Julia Stanforth - August 12, 2019

Bonita & Dale, I can't imagine what you are going thru. I just learned today about Monica as I didn't know her married name. I remember her as a toddler to early teens. My heart, love, thoughts, and prayers are with you, the Chapman's, Brim's, Storey's, and Brickhouse's.. May he continue to keep all of you in his arms of love.. Lean on him, he is your source of strength. Monica will be missed.

Prayers, Twila "Tootie" Cassell
The Cassell Family

~ Twila Cassell - August 11, 2019

My deepest condolences! Rest in Peace ? Your Anthem Family

~ Trina Thornton - August 10, 2019

I have wonderful memories of working with Monica at the bank. We remained friends through Facebook when I moved away. I loved seeing all the beautiful pictures of her and her son. My heart is broken for her children and her family!! Such a beautiful soul taken way too early!

~ Stefanie Behr - August 10, 2019

I worked with Monica at Bank of America where we had a wonderful friendship. Words cannot express the hurt and disappointment that I share with this family, but my prayers will continue to be lifted up for you in the days and years ahead. God is our refuge and strength a very present help in trouble- Psalms 46.

~ Reverend Jeremy Jones - August 10, 2019

To my dear friend Monica.

In the short time we knew each other, we have cried together, laughed together and couponed spiritually together. I considered you a very close and dear friend that I cherished very much. You were there for some of my tough times this past year. You confided in me as well. I will forever miss you hun. I pray that you're up in heaven couponing your little heart out and scoring all the deals. I'll forever remember you. I'll cherish the car decal and the key holder you blessed me with for these are now priceless...I love you friend...until we meet again. Fly high

~ Ciera Jordan - August 10, 2019

Rest In Heaven watch over your Husband and kids. My Condolences to your whole family

~ Damien Wilson - August 10, 2019

Family so so sorry for your loss love and prayers to you all Rest easy Monica ??

~ Marsha Jones - August 10, 2019

My deepest sympathies go out to the Storey & Brickhouse family. Monica IS a Positive Light, Force and Person that I was Blessed to have worked with, from 2002-2006, and call a Friend. Her Eyes and Smile would Light up the room and She Always had Kind Words to say. Her Sense of Humor and Quick Wit was Unmatched. I never saw her get out of character for the slightest thing. Please accept this Bird of Paradise as a Token of the LOVE She Showed Everyone in Her Midst. When eyes rest upon it, May The Beholder Think of Her as the Angel She Was on Earth that Now Soars in the Paradise we Know as Heaven. May Her Energy and Memory Be A Blessing to The Family, Friends and People Around the World.

erdc2 of VA Beach, VA.

~ Eric Coleman - August 10, 2019

Our heart and prayers are with you family. May our God cover and keep you during this time of loss. Rest in peace Monica.

~ Sandra Allen - August 10, 2019

I had The pleasure of working with Monica at both Bank of America as well as Anthem. More closely at Bank of America. Monica was always very soft spoken and had an extremely sweet temperament. She always walked with her head held high and with a smile on her face. Always willing to help with anything that was asked of her. I am extremely saddened by the news of her untimely passing. My prayers and condolences to her entire family as well as friends and everyone who loved her. Rest Well Monica! B. Lott

~ Brandi Lott - August 10, 2019

The the family of Monica and all who loved her. I did not know Monica personally, but I want you to know that I mourn her loss to you and the loss of all the precious lives that were taken by a senseless act of violence. I also want you to know that you and all the families in Dayton and El Paso will be in my prayers now and in the weeks and months to come. May God bless you and keep you in your time of sorrow. Maureen Willits, Kettering

~ Maureen Willits - August 9, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with each and every member of Monica’s family. I remember her from school. Praying that the Lord keeps you all covered during this difficult time.

~ Niesha Sams (Ragland) - August 9, 2019

Family, The Lord cares and will comfort your hearts during this time and forever. Please remember that our memories are forever and a place where we can always visit when our loved ones are no longer here with us.

~ Vanessa (Enoch Baptist Church, VA. Beach, VA) Fowler - August 9, 2019

To Monica's family, I am an Anthem employee and was moved when we realized we lost 2 teammates in the tragedy. My condolences to you all. I've visited Virginia Beach many times as part of work, and when we began working with Amerigroup I remembered what it was like to work with a group of loving and caring people. I am truly sorry for your loss.

~ Emily Byers - August 9, 2019

May GOD'S Grace and MERCY be with you and your loved ones.
From George Brickhouse of Brockton MA
Joyce Brickhouse of Albuquerque NM
Jackson Brickhouse of Albuquerque NM
Benita Brickhouse of Poland OH
Keith Brickhouse of Boston Ma
Anthony Jackson and family of Detroit MI

~ George Brickhouse - August 9, 2019

Lots of love and prayers.

~ McKayla Likins - August 8, 2019

So sorry to learn this didn't realize it was the beautiful little kid that live across the street she and my daughter Ra Chel played alot on Parkwood when they were kid i give my deepest condolences to the family. RLA & L K J

~ Richard L Allen - August 8, 2019

My deepest heartfelt condolences go out to Monica's friends and family. I worked with Monica when John Medley was her manager. I always enjoyed her demeanor and grace, while working in a stressful field. Such a beautiful woman of God, gone but not forgotten.

~ Marjorie Moore - August 8, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. I didn’t know her. May God give you all healing in what was a tragic time for everyone near and far.

~ Jennifer B - August 8, 2019

Rest in peace Monica, for you shall arise again when the soon coming King (The Almighty) shall appear.

Continue prayers of comfort and healing for the entire family.

2 Corinthians 5:8

Blessings,
Chatman Family

~ Monique Chatman - August 8, 2019

I haven't had the pleasure of Meeting Mrs. Brickhouse but from what i hear from family and friends she seems to be an amazing woman. My sincere heartfelt condolences goes out to her husband, kids, the entire family and friends. May God grant you all comfort and peace during this most difficult time. God bless you all!??????????????

~ Jetter Freeman - August 8, 2019

I remember how good of a person she was and she made my dad and family so happy and ever since the shooting no one is going to be the same i mean I cant even smile like I do anymore and the fact that my brain knows that she is gone my heart will never let go. Monica was the best step mom a little girl could have that just they way that I see it. When I heard the news that she was gone my heart shattered and now I wonder how do I fix this. But you can't fix everything. I try to be happy put on a happy face everyday. But I cant do that knowing i'm not going to be able to call see or even hear her voice again. She was a great person to be around she helped a lot she brought smiles laughter everything you see in a joyful person that was her. She was the best step mom ever and she can't be replaced. She met my dad and they had an instant click its like i looked and i said yea that is my step mom. Now and days people are so cruel she didn't deserve this she waked with a smile she had her bad days but didn't show them she always showed a smile. To be truthfully honest i knew she was right for my dad and my dad knew she was right for him.

~ Sanaa Michelle Brickhouse - August 8, 2019

Dear Family,
Monica ("Mo") was such a joy. She was beautiful, intelligent, stylish, ambitious, witty, real, sarcastic, loving, generous, creative and full-of-life. Mo and I shared tears, laughter, pains, lessons, triumphs, love and life. My prayers, thoughts and love are with you all during this most tragic and difficult time.

Prayers of comfort and peace,
Jennifer

~ Jennifer Lacey - August 8, 2019

My condolence to the Brickhouse family.

~ DOnna Beckford - August 8, 2019

Dear Family,
I had the pleasure of working with Monica for several years at Bank of America, in fact I was Monica's Manager for a period of time. Monica was a beautiful person, and she was truly loved by all. She has been a positive influence on countless lives and will be missed by her Bank of America Family. May the Lord bless and keep you all.

~ John Medley - August 8, 2019

Monica was a very beautiful and kind person.

~ Khalilah Portis-Phillps - August 8, 2019

In God's care, rest in peace.

~ Dwayne Bickham, Sr. - August 7, 2019

Condolences to the family I pray God give u peace and strength during this difficult time

~ Stephanie Wise - August 7, 2019

My Prayers and Condolences to the Family and Friends of Mrs. Brickhouse...May God strengthen and comfort everyone in their time of sorrow(Psalm 23rd Chapter)

From Bank of America

~ Evangelist Michelle White - August 7, 2019

Monica.........thank you for embracing me in Pensacola, FL. You were the TRUE definition of a friend! Always and forever in my heart. The family is in my prayers.

~ LaNica Holifield - August 7, 2019

Monica Brickhouse was a beautiful young lady who was thoughtful and generous. Always smiling and making me laugh. Thank you for great memories of spending time with you and Bea. I’m really going to miss you Mo.

~ Demetria Fuller-Johnson - August 7, 2019

MAY GOD BE WITH THE FAMILY PRAYING THAT GODS HOLD THE FAMILY HANDS THOUGH THESE SAD TIMES MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES PRAYER POWER

~ Zelma Harrington - August 7, 2019

Monica was truly a very loving individual that will be greatly missed.

~ Latisha Greene - August 7, 2019

I met Monica in the 5th grade and she was always very nice and a great friend to me. She will be truly missed and I will keep her family and friends in prayer during this time.

~ Christina Brown - August 7, 2019

Didn't know Monica, knew her parents. My prayers goes out to her husband, the children and the Storey family. Love you all

~ Janice Montgomery-Little - August 7, 2019

I didn't know Monica but just reading the story of what happen to you and so many others breaks my heart. You didn't deserve this nor did your babies. May you rest in peace!! You and your family will forever be in my prayers.

~ Patrice Johnson - August 7, 2019

I met Monica in the 6 grade living in Fairborn. She was one of the sweetest people I knew and she and Nene were there for me when I didnt really have anyone else. I spent alot of time at there house practicing drill team routines with Monica and spending the night. As were got older we both moved and ended up in Spfld. Everytime I ran into her here it was like we never grew apart still the same sweet beautiful girl she was in grade school...I was completely shocked to see her picture in this list of victims and sick that this happened to her. I am so sorry for your loss Nene, her husband and children. Praying for all the families affected by this tragic event.

~ MARIA BLOXOM - August 6, 2019

I went to school with Monica and she was a very bright, beautiful, silly and Loving person!!!!! I’m going to miss her sooooo much!!!! Even though we didn’t talk daily, when we seen each other it was ALWAYS LOVE!! Prayers to Ms Nene, her son, Family and friends

~ Shanta Chilton - August 6, 2019

I meet Monica in 8th grade ,she always wore a smiled and just a Beautiful person inside and out. we became GREAT friends we went to high school together ,we was on drill team together, plenty of sleep overs. many laughs and Many tears of love , all our ups and down we went through as just dealing with life as teenagers we was Always was there for each other, God Made us friends for a reason , we grew older and went our own ways but when we got together it was always good times it’s like we pick up like we never left and that’s REAL FRIENDSHIP. I just can’t believe she is gone my heart and love and prayers goes out to her family may god Comfort you and give you guidance and understanding. I’m still can’t believing she is gone. I’m so Glad I got to tell her I love her the last time I seen her!

~ Wanda Wells - August 6, 2019